Should all women use “ladies” grips?

No. Traditional grip size labels were created many years ago, when the average woman’s hand was smaller than it is today.
For this reason, every golfer — regardless of gender — should choose a grip size that fits their own hand. For some women the “ladies” size will be appropriate, but more and more of them feel more comfortable with a “standard” grip.
Fortunately, taking the correct measurement is very simple. Instructions for choosing the right grip can be found in the Grip Fitting section.